Hard truths cut both ways and indifference is not the result of becoming independent. There is a lot of confusion that I believe needs much more conersation.
There is a reason to care about things. To be careless is a false friend with being smart, able to critically think. That is not true, there’s clear evidence to support that.
Caring is a quality that I learned I shouldn’t try to push away, instead, learn how to play into it.